Journal Gazette from Mattoon, Illinois • Page 10

I in Cuber agree? I 1 unity Life uuhiiii By Ann Undars I Dear Ann Landers: As a reader who has been annoyed by your strong advocacy of an active sex life as part of every marriage (even in the golden years), it affords me great pleasure to quote to you a real authority who does not agree. Prof. John F. Cuber of the 10 Tuesday, August 1S70 Mattoon JOURNAL GAZETTE New Arrivals could afford and encouraged Jon's parents to invite as many relatives and friends as they Ohio State University sociology department says a sizable percentage of happily married wished. Their list was noticeably small.

They invited only people consider sexual activity either unimportant or a nega their closest relatives and virtually no friends. We thought this was strange since they know everyone in town. tive matter. Dr. Cuber claims many a marriage starts out with sex a normal part of it, but atrophy sets in, due to pres Now the.

problem: My hus sures on both sides. Women are band and I have planned two preoccupied with the rearing of Schrock of rural Arthur. Maternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Levi H.

Miller of Areola arid paternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. John A. Schrock of Arthur. Great-grandparents are Mr.

and Mrs. Eli M. Otto and Mr. and Mrs. Henry B.

Miller of Areola and Mr. and Mrs. David Y. Yoder and Mrs. Rebecca Schrock of Arthur.

Kristin Lynn Hayford Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Hayford of 609 Marion became the par children domestic help is hard to tind and sneer taugue eroaes the excitement necessary for thorough sexual satisfaction. The husband's business wor ries diminish his interest in sex 4 Kimberly Renae Conner Mr. and Mrs.

Dale W. Conner of 1117 South Lawn became the parents of a daughter, Kimberly Renae, at 5:38 p.m. Thursday, Aug. 13. She weighed 8 pounds, IVi ounces and was born in Memorial Hospital.

The Conners have another daughter, Lisa, 5. Conner is employed at R. R. Donnelley and Sons. Mrs.

Betty Kimball is the maternal grandmother and Mrs. Jessie Conner is the paternal grandmother. Both live in Effingham. Mrs. Myrtle Huffman of Effingham is the great-grandmother.

Elizabeth Anne Emmerich Mr. and Mrs. Gene F. Emmerich of Route 2 became the parents of a daughter, Elizabeth Anne, at 3:05 p.m. Saturday, Aug.

15. She weighed 7 pounds, 13 ounces and was born in Memorial Hospital. Other children in the family simply because he does not have the energy. aA ents of a daughter, Kristin Lynn, Dr. Cuber said many normal at 5:13 a.m.

Thursday, Aug. 13, people regard sex as a bore in Memorial Hospital. She and a nuisance, but a neces weighed 6 pounds, Vk ounces parties this fall and we- are not including Jon's parents. Our daughter is hurt by the attitude of her in-laws but feels if they got to know us better they would like us and be more cordial. I don't want fo discuss my feelings with my daughter, but her in-laws have had ample opportunity to get to know us if they wanted to.

We don't care to make any further attempts to socialize with them. Are we right to exclude them. Something Borrowed Dear Something: It is obvious that your daughter's in-laws do not consider you and your husband social friends. Invite them to family get-togethers; such as christenings and anniversary parties affairs which might cause your daughter and her husband embarrassment sary evil. He claims a sexless Hayford is a student at East- marriage can be very rewarding providing there are other em Illinois University.

Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd Stone of compensations. What do you Monticello are maternal grand say to that, Ann Landers? Windy City Reader parents. Paternal grandparents are Mr.

and Mrs. Melvin Hay Dear Windy: Thank you for sending on the" interesting re ford of Normal. marks of Prof. Cuber. I am Mrs.

Eleanor Larsen of Paris not saying anything until I hear is great-grandmother. from Mrs. Cuber. Navy nurses graduated Navy Ensign Wendy A. Mai V-J lory, Nurse Corps, daughter of Dr.

and Mrs. Joseph R. Mallory of 4 Wabash, and Navy Ensign Janice L. Rawlings, Nurse VSJ Corps, daughter of Mr. and Mrs should his parents not be included.

Beyond that nothing. Dear Ann Landers: I learned just yesterday that my 13-year-old sister has been showing my letters from a former sweetheart (now in the service) to my current steady. He has been paying her $1 a letter. They do not know I know. What should I do? I am heartsick.

Pensacola Dear Pen: Tell your sister you are aware of her rat-fink operation and give your current -steady a fast farewell. He's N.G. Dear Ann Landers: Six months ago our only daughter was married to a fine young man. His parents are socially prominent. We are not.

My husband didn't have the opportunity for a college education but he makes a good living and is well respected by everyone who knows him. When our daughter was going with Jon his parents were cool to us. We invited them to our home on two occasions. They accepted our invitations but did not reciprocate. We gave our daughter (and their son) as nice a wedding as we are Michael, 4M; Michelle, and Jennifer, 2.

Emmerich is employed as a research analyst with the State Employment Service Office in Mattoon. Maternal grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. William Harold Price of Neoga and paternal grandmother is Mrs. Anna Emmerich of Wheeler.

Mr. and Mrs. Ray Price of Janesville are great-grandparents. Eldon Ray Miller Mr. and Mrs.

Menno Miller of rural Areola became the parents of a son, Eldon Ray, at 8:32 a.m. Saturday. He weighed 8 pounds, 13 ounces and was born in Memorial Hospital. Other children in the family are Howard, Sharon, Shirley, 4, and Treva, 3. Miller is a farmer.

Maternal grandmother is Mrs. Lena Plank of rural Arthur. are Mr. and Mrs. Dan A.

Miller of rural Arthur. Leonard C. Rawlings of 713 Charleston, were graduated from Officer Indoctrination Course for Nurses and the Med ical Service Corps at the Naval Schools Command, Newport, R.I. They will now report for duty Use of scarves at San Diego. Cakndafi il if tote is magic Tuesday, Aug.

18 attoon Women's Civil De 4 Vi-iT-A fense. 7:30 p.m.,- Civil Defense Office, 12th and Richmond. Chew-Chew Away TOPS Club, 7 p.m., First Baptist Church, downstairs. New members welcome. TOPS Skimmers, 7 p.m., First Baptist Church, upstairs.

New members welcome. Wednesday, Aug. 19 Ti Most Ftmoui tti Great-grandparents are Mr. and MrsV'John Plank and Mr. and Mrs.

Menno Schrock and Mrs. Ben C. Yoder, all of Arthur. Edna E. Schrock Mr.

and Mrs. Ervin J. Schrock of rural Arthur became the parents of a daughter, Edna at 6:05 a.m. Friday, Aug. 14.

She weighed 8 pounds, 14 ounces and was born at Memorial Hospital. Other chilren in the family are Andrew, Wilmer, Ernest, 4, Mary Louise, 5, and Martha Ann, 18 months. Schrock farms for John A. THIS IS A looks great with almost any Try it for-your fin-, "de-siecle (mid-Victorian) velvet -and brocade evening midis, perhaps with an antique broach. Long, floating chiffon is in this fall and the out-sized bow (B) is one look you achieve with it.

This works with soft twills, too. Another good look is the wrapped once-and-around- took, (C). The 48-inch oblong is back, too, tied once and left square at the side of the neck good on body sweaters (D). Or, wear it as an ascot, tucked into your jacket. The small, wrapped head has a marvelous affinity for the new midi-look; here are two ways: (E) and (F).

And, if you like your hair loose, try the Indian headband (G) with a square or oblong. Don't wonder how the look is done. Get busy with a scarf. That's what makes the midi-look work. It looks as though the midi is definitely here for fall.

But, -actor ding" loD. H. Roberts of ECHO scarf Co. in New York, you can't just don a long skirt and hope for the best. The trick is in the total look the magic use of accessories.

Of course the most important accessory of all is your old friend, the scarf. Just flip a scarf in a certain way atop your longuette and, presto, it's a Cration. But no one will notice it's a mini if you've got a midi-look scarf, sparking it up. 'Here's a list of magic tricks to try. with scarves.

The newest, of course, is the wrapped dogcollar (A). It's very simple just fold a square on the bias, place it on your neck, ends to the back, cross them, bring them to the front and tie in a tiny square knot. The knot can go to the front or the side or the back experiment. This is a great new "topper" for your midi-suit, and rQ) Duplicate bridge game, 7:30 p.m., American Legion. Senior Citizens, 1:30 p.m., De-Mars Youth Center, Peterson Park.

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